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True friends are very hard to come by. And often they are hard to keep in your life. People go through your life so rapidly sometimes, that looking back on former years, there are many face that we can no longer attach with names.

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Image of Calvin and Hobbes cartoon, saying "true friends are hard to come by"True friends are very hard to come by. And often they are hard to keep in your life. People go through your life so rapidly sometimes, that looking back on former years, there are many face that we can no longer attach with names.

There are all kinds of friends in our life through the entire range of our life. Some are quick moving and not really close at all, some friends just love drama and appear in your life when the drama level has reached the red critical level, some are attracted to calamity and disaster and are only around when something really dire has happened to them or to you, some are attracted to money – so when you are a profitable person your friend is by your side but if you are in the down and out, your friend is busy with other things.

True friends are there through thick and thin. They sometimes manage to continue with their own life, but when you need them they will make time for you. Thats what friendship is really all about. Our own private support system to help us make it through the journey of life.

True friends don’t judge you for actions you have committed, no matter how messed up your actions were. They are just there to counsel you that you should never do that action again and help pick up the pieces of your life after it all came crashing down.

True friends mimic that inner voice of yours that tells you that you are acting like a fool and not seeing the forests for the trees. They advise you on facts that in the back of your mind, you already know are true.

True friends don’t always have to be around everyday to be true friends. Sometimes you may go a day, a week, a month, a year, or several years without hearing from them or even seeing them. Then when you need them, they are there. And it never seems like they have been away for too long at those times, because your friendship is as real as it was when you saw them everyday.

The important thing to remember is that true friends are your friends for life. And YOU yourself are a true friend to someone else. And maybe they need you help or advice right now. So how about you go call or visit them and see if everything is ok or if they need any help from you. I know they will appreciate your touch mentally. I know that it will make them feel better. And I know that it will make you feel better.

To all my friends, I love you so much. I want the best for you. I expect the best from your capabilities. I know you can achieve anything that you want to achieve. Even if you don’t hear from me for a long time, realize simply that I love you and carry with you in my heart every single day of my life. I appreciate you. To quote a famous song:

“If I could make a day to give to you

I would give you a morning, golden and new.

I would make this day last for all time,

And fill the nights full of moonshine.”

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